Guidelines for Clients

Welcome to Gigi Wilbur’s Sex Coaching. I am so happy you have made the time and resources for me to be your guide and Sex Coach.

What is sex coaching?

Sex Coaching is a mix of these elements and is NOT therapy. It is its own form of promoting sexual wellness.

1) Personalized sexuality information and education
2) Re-directive cognitive processes and mental refraining
3) Emotional balancing
4) Intuitive guidance
5) Behavioral training
6) Resources and referrals

Sex Coaching involves all of these parts of you:

Mind: Information. Your “‘self-talk,” thinking about sexual performance, capacity for fantasy, troubling thought patterns, such as compulsivity.

Emotions: Feelings that you carry from the past, about your body and body image, what you suppress and express, how you express your emotions, and your capacity for intimacy

Body and body-image issues: Physical. Knowing how your own sexual pattern works, understanding your own body’s sexual architecture and function, acknowledging your own sexual (dys)functions, learning skills for how to be a successful lover alone or with a partner.

Energy: Sex is all about energy! The build-up, the containment and the expression of energy. In my “one-on-one work” I observe energy patterns with the individual and with a partner and give coaching feedback for handling this often over looked part of sexuality

Spirit: The essence of self. Esoteric moments or practices that transcend the moment, such as peak orgasm experiences; sacred sexuality; the more subtle and delicate manner in which people deny or reflect their inner self through sexuality; the path of sex to experience the Divine or God

What are my responsibilities?

• To guide, direct and protect you from harm

•. To empower you to attain the dreams you desire

•. To empower you to overcome any sexual difficulties you may have or fear you have.

•. To help you reach your sexual/relationship goals and together as a team find results that satisfy you.

What are your responsibilities?

• To be on time for your scheduled appointment

•. To pay on time for your appointment

•. To provide a comprehensive history on sexual relationships

•. To be authentic and share your truth with me.

What are the fees?

Fees are set at $ $120/hour in person or by telephone based on ability to pay; fees are pro-rated for longer or shorter sessions. Payment is expected at the beginning of each session by check, cash or money order. Credits cards are also welcome. If finances are a problem for you, a sliding fee scale and payment programs are always available.

There will be a $25 charge for emails over 3 short paragraphs in length (under 250 words) that relate to our work together. If your emails are longer than approximately 1,000 words, I will charge for a full session.

Emails vs. sessions

For most of our work, it is best to keep a journal of your thoughts, feelings, observations and behavioral assignments, and use the journal for the discussions we have during our live sessions. If you use emails in between sessions to communicate with me instead of during sessions, we will re-assess the use of emails vs. sessions in a live session.

Emails are for your informing me of changes to our scheduled appointments: they should be used for your growth only at a minimum. Please use our live sessions not emails for updating, processing your journey, and working through why you are here in the first place.

How do sessions work?

Sessions are conducted by Zoom, which can be highly effective. Most sessions are 60 minutes in length. Sessions may be scheduled for once a week, less or more frequently depending on your schedule, my availability and your needs for sex coaching.

What about missing or changing appointments?

If you cannot make your appointment, a 24-hours-in-advance cancellation policy is expected of you. If you fail to cancel or reschedule within that time frame, a 50% charge will be asked of you for the missed appointment. Of course, if there are extraordinary circumstances involved, no charges will be asked for the missed appointment. Due to my participation in live media (radio. TV, etc.) I may have to move our appointment in those situations. I will do my utmost to give a 24-hours notice, as well.

What can you expect?

This type of work can be transformational for your whole life, not just your sexuality. By trusting the process and allowing me to be your guide, you will grow, learn and become a more empowered person, I assure you. Thank you so much for choosing me as your Sex Coach. It is always my honor and privilege to do this work. I am thrilled that we are going down this path together.

Coaching Agreement (Example)

This agreement, between Gigi Raven Wilbur, Sex Coach and the above-named client, will begin and will continue for a minimum of three months. The fee for the initial meeting is $120.00, and the fee for the initial three months is $480.00 per month, payable in advance each month.

The services to be provided by the coach to the client are coaching or tele-coaching, as
designed jointly with the client. Coaching, which is not advice, therapy, or counseling,
may address specific personal projects, business successes, or general conditions in
the client’s life or profession.

Upon completion of the three months, coaching will convert to a month-to-month basis.

The client and coach agree to provide each other with fourteen-day notice in the event either wishes to cancel further services. It should be noted that the monthly fee is calculated based on an average of four weeks per month.

The coach promises the client that all information provided to the coach will be kept strictly confidential.

Throughout the working relationship, the coach will engage in direct and personal
conversations. The client can count on the coach to be honest and straightforward in asking questions and making requests. The client understands that the power of the coaching relationship can be granted only by the client, and the client agrees to do just that: have the coaching relationship be powerful. If the client believes the coaching is not working as desired, the client will communicate that belief and take action to return the power to the coaching relationship.

GG Raven Wilbur has the ownership rights, licensing, and use of any materials or intellectual property created for or during an engagement. To the best of my knowledge any materials or intellectual property created are original and do not infringe upon the intellectual property rights of others?

Our signatures on this agreement indicate full understanding of an agreement with the
information outlined above.